The girl i really like found out i smoke weed and she wants me to stop.?

July 10th, 2009 | by Jeff Trikoleti |

The girl i have liked for a while wants me to stop smoking weed. She said she is really mad at me and its bad for you and stuff. But i love weed, and i do it with my friends all the time its a life style. What should i do? Keep doing weed? Tell her i stopped but do it any way? Dont do it at all. And please dont call me a drug addict because its not a drug, its a plant. A herb.

I myself used to smoke weed too; Until I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease and I started pretty much living in my doctors office.

I say stop for a little while and see if the relationship with her is worth it. If not break it off and roll a nice blunt :)

  1. 17 Responses to “The girl i really like found out i smoke weed and she wants me to stop.?”

  3. By Todd on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    Dude get a vaporizer which lets you smoke weed without actually inhaling smoke! You get all the cannabinoids with none of the carcinogens. That way, you can tell her now it’s not bad for you, at all. And it’s less addicting than a cup of coffee or alcohol.

    Or like ya said…quit for a minute and see if the relationship is worth it, and if not…roll a fatty!

  4. By Todd on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    LMAO@Alfred A

    Ethan and missee are cool.

    Listen to us.

  5. By mabuhai on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    Stop smoking forever

  6. By Alfred A on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    Weed is more important than that woman. Weed is a religion.
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  7. By horselove23 on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    first of all if your going to lie to her about it, then dont even try with a relationship. lying is never ok.

    i think you need to decide what you want more, weed, or her.
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  8. By Joshua B on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    Ok, I agree with it being a plant, but it’s definitally not an herb. You have 2 options, because one is totally stupid and basically starts the foundation of your relationship on a lie.

    Pick the one that you prefer more. Do you prefer her, or your habit? That’s the question here. Telling her you stopped, when you didn’t, just means that the relationship won’t work out before it even starts.
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  9. By Ethan on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    I myself used to smoke weed too; Until I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease and I started pretty much living in my doctors office.

    I say stop for a little while and see if the relationship with her is worth it. If not break it off and roll a nice blunt :)
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  10. By k.x0x0 on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    If you really like her and care about her then you will stop. If you do it behind her back, that just shows that you don’t care about her as much as you say and that you have no respect for her and she’s not worth you telling her the truth. It’s either her or the weed. Your choice.
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  11. By kayliiii on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    i think that if you really care about her, than you should quit.
    definitley dont go behind her back and smoke because then she’ll be even more pissed than before and she won’t like you.
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  12. By poohbear on Jul 10, 2009 | Reply

    STOP DOING IT DONT DO IT FOR THE GIRL BUT DO IT 4 URSELF
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  13. By missee on Jul 11, 2009 | Reply

    When I got with my husband I felt the same way. He hid it from me for a while, but I found out he was still smoking. Once I finally "gave in" I realized I only got mad at him because I didn’t understand it and was always told it was bad. I now have nothing against it and the only reason he doesn’t do it anymore is because he is looking for a new job. I wish they would legalize it.
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  14. By Snwboardfreak on Jul 11, 2009 | Reply

    Dont stop, tell her that she cant change you. And everything is bad for you in the long run, Im pretty sure we will all die some way, why not from something you love, right?
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  15. By caroline c on Jul 11, 2009 | Reply

    dont stop for her stop for urself weed is so bad for u it shortens ur life i think u should so look up what weed does to u cause u r ruining ur self God’s creation so just stop for u and for her
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  16. By Jen on Jul 11, 2009 | Reply

    Smoking weed is not Healthy! If you are like most other drug users The feeling weed gives you will fade and you could become addicted to something worse and end up in critical condition in the Hospital or dead.

    I would quit the weed and go for the chick
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  17. By mike jones on Sep 29, 2009 | Reply

    yo man i smoke weed like 5-8 times a day and i was in the same spot i liked this girl and she liked me..then one of my ratty friends ratted on me and she got pissed and i realized i actually liked her alot..so i stopped..its now been 5 days since i stopped and im happy i did it..there is an order my friend
    1. PUSSY
    2. MONEY
    3. WEED

  18. By Jah on Oct 23, 2009 | Reply

    “Try to realize it’s all within yourself, no one else can make you change; and to see you’re really only very small and life flows on within you and without you.”

    Firstly be honest whatever you do. Be true to her, but don’t lie to yourself about what you want. There should be a way to find a happy medium. It’s unreasonable for a complete life make over, I’m sure your friends would be choked.

    I don’t understand why some partners don’t apprciate that..in fact you need to demonstrate that she’s the number one thing in your heart..and the ganja in your mind and soul. ;)

  19. By dman on Nov 16, 2009 | Reply

    dude weed is good for you and aginst the law at the same time go out with the girl for a few weeks and the after a while tell her that your going to smoke it how ever you do and offer her to come if she says no then go ahead w/o her if says no & if you do im leaving then take your pick if she says yea then way to go you have a pot smoking girlfriend

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